A week late and few hundred dollar short, but I am posting this to say I had a good time at the April 23rd Party. I didn't go as far as I wanted, I didn't want to come off as too anxious at my first event here. I had a few drinks, gave a good amount of singles to the pole dancers, enjoyed a variety of lap dances especially one where two of the talents (sadly can't remember their names) were double teaming everybody for it. Later I went upstairs with one of them for a few minutes of private fun. I went only as far as having a more sensual lap dance with my dick out and she got into the mood to where she started playing rough by licking my nipples, choking and slapping me. Which I'm into, so pleasant surprise that I have a natural "dominate me" aura.
I had a good time with the Harmony Theater girls who I didn't expect to be here, I was just hanging out and chatting with Goddess and catching up with Lucifina who I met at Harmony before. Both of whom I vibe well with and plan to see again. I had a few great lap dances from them that got pretty sensual, if I started my night with them I would have had more money for more personal time with them. My biggest blunder for the night is not seeing Jessica about the $100 BJ special. I was excited for it but anytime I saw her wasn't a good chance because she looked occupied, or I was talking to or getting grinded on by one of the girls. I found it hard to stop with them, approach Jessica and ask for it cause I'm an awkward guy who was afraid of coming off as rude or a jerk. They probably would not have minded but I have low confidence and bad timing. I will do better at the next one. I may also just see Jessica for a meet up when I can.
All in all, now that I have a better idea of what to expect I will do more to assert myself and do more at the next one I attend.