Seeing a girl more than three times
- Thread starter Flaviooooo
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I have a theory on this, especially when it come to GFE indies.
I think it's easier to fake it the first few times but if you keep going back regularly it's harder and harder for the girl to fake it so eventually you just get a regular going thru the motions session or she just cuts you off.
That doesn't mean all girls you see consistently, but I think the ones that are totally GFE on the first session are the ones that have a problem maintaining that level if you keep coming back week after week.
Curious who else has found this and hear some stories.
I think it's easier to fake it the first few times but if you keep going back regularly it's harder and harder for the girl to fake it so eventually you just get a regular going thru the motions session or she just cuts you off.
That doesn't mean all girls you see consistently, but I think the ones that are totally GFE on the first session are the ones that have a problem maintaining that level if you keep coming back week after week.
Curious who else has found this and hear some stories.
I can't relate to that. I have the opposite experience. First times are usually more restrictive, second and third they get more familiar with me and more doors are opened, sessions are much more fun. Nowadays I rarely have more than one encounters with one because there's so many to choose from I'm always compelled to try something new all the time.
This is a different, albeit a more common scenario. Where as the girl gains comfort with you there are more options on the table.
But the scenario this thread is attempting to address is when you see a girl for the first time and she is totally GFE, kissing, very friendly. That model is hard to sustain unless she truly has an attraction to you. Otherwise what happens is that a guy will catch feelings because he can't differentiate the acting from her real feelings and she gets creeped out and usually cuts him off.
Lol, and that sometimes leads to a thread in the Coliseum.
But the scenario this thread is attempting to address is when you see a girl for the first time and she is totally GFE, kissing, very friendly. That model is hard to sustain unless she truly has an attraction to you. Otherwise what happens is that a guy will catch feelings because he can't differentiate the acting from her real feelings and she gets creeped out and usually cuts him off.
Lol, and that sometimes leads to a thread in the Coliseum.
More to @Flaviooooo 's point -
A few years ago @popeye was breaking down the difference between two WOCs he had recently seen, one of whom I had already seen.
And he gave the explanation that has always stuck with me and it's the basis of my opinion in this thread.
One of them was totally friendly and acted like your gf from the first session. The other was more cautious and you had to see her a few times to build up trust and extras.
Now granted, one was an independent escort working out of her apartment and the other was advertised as a body rub girl so right there are some built in differences of what type of service level to expect.
But as @popeye said, the immediate gfe is hard to sustain so she either has to offer more services or cut the guy off.
And true to form the Indy girl was known for just ghosting guys, stop taking their calls. That's how she handles the situation.
A few years ago @popeye was breaking down the difference between two WOCs he had recently seen, one of whom I had already seen.
And he gave the explanation that has always stuck with me and it's the basis of my opinion in this thread.
One of them was totally friendly and acted like your gf from the first session. The other was more cautious and you had to see her a few times to build up trust and extras.
Now granted, one was an independent escort working out of her apartment and the other was advertised as a body rub girl so right there are some built in differences of what type of service level to expect.
But as @popeye said, the immediate gfe is hard to sustain so she either has to offer more services or cut the guy off.
And true to form the Indy girl was known for just ghosting guys, stop taking their calls. That's how she handles the situation.
This's happened : maybe 5 or more times after, I couldn't make it happened again,.... First, came by frequency is too closer (every week), 2# he's minds too much pressure to disturb him, maybe jobs, maybe family, 3# Marijuana, pill Control his body......Switching providers and trying another one might make it happen again, or might not ,..Because his body pressure things didn't go away.
Eh I've probably seen BBW Amanda 75-100x and every time has been great and there will be more times in the future. If anything the sessions have got better over time as we become used to each other.
When Sophia Belle was working she was the same way. Same with the infamous Blond Bombshell and Nicki no drip... First session good enough to get me to come back, then the next session even better etc.
The only one I have seen a bunch but I would consider the first session the very best was Gina Rollins, and I blame this on the complete shock factor of being with someone like her with zero limits. You never forget the first time someone asks you to pee down their throat lol.
When Sophia Belle was working she was the same way. Same with the infamous Blond Bombshell and Nicki no drip... First session good enough to get me to come back, then the next session even better etc.
The only one I have seen a bunch but I would consider the first session the very best was Gina Rollins, and I blame this on the complete shock factor of being with someone like her with zero limits. You never forget the first time someone asks you to pee down their throat lol.